Here's the irony. Yee Soon wants me to teach him how to study, and yet he keeps making remarks about me and Siew Fai (being a couple). And what's worse, the rest of the guys are following suit. This is why I believe in karma when he lost his *ahem ahem* while sleeping in class.

    But what I found out recently was even more shocking. He made a remark that I give very good love advice. When I looked back at my previous posts, I really don't find so. Perhaps I realize something that they weren't able to see or thought about this issues thoroughly.

    So I'll just write something simple about romance... and... I dunno. I'll just go with the flow, I guess.

    I really envy girls a lot, and the part I'm most jealous about them is not attraction (girls have better attributes in that, but guys can have it too. namely money. =X) but their intuition. It's almost like having spider senses, and they can avoid danger when necessary. You'll see what I mean later.

    When a guy likes a girl (prob due to this "attraction" factor), guys are very bad at hiding it. They stop acting like themselves. They start doing weird things. They get distracted easily. So for example, if it was Siew Fai, I can tell the symptoms within 2 weeks. For any other guy, probably a month. But if you ask Li San or Su Yi, they can catch on faster than me, and for the girl who's being chased, knows instantly.

    So... great, now the girl knows! What will happen? For a girl, it's simple for her to reject him instantly. And he can't deny it because he's just so damn obvious. The guy will be pissed for a while by her approach, but it's for the better of the human race. WHAT WOULD REALLY SUCK is if she continues to lead you on, or rather ignore the signs... After all, the guy's trying to lure the girl's heart. She has nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

    Now let's try reverse role. For one, for the girl to be chasing after the guy, she'll have to either desperate or ultimately lovestrucked by the guy (looks, charisma or wallet). In normal circumstances, she wouldn't admit it and you can't force her into confessing (that's just not how things roll). Plus you don't want to sound like a complete perasan case ("Oh I know you're in love with me", and she gives you the blur look), so you really can't do anything about it. You may assume that you're leading her on, but like I said earlier, the girl really has nothing to lose. Once she finds out you're not interested, she'll stop latching. (but I can't really say the same applies with the reverse...)

    Of course, being in a relationship is all about loving each other, and not bertepuk sebelah tangan aje. The solution? Give yourself 1 month before confessing. If you're sure you're still interested in her, then it isn't lust. Guys will still have to confess first (it's called chivalry, i guess), and girls will accept or reject. It sucks to be rejected, but hey, at least you're not taken for a joy ride.